How To Please A Woman In & Out Of Bed by Daylle Deanna Schwartz

Author:Daylle Deanna Schwartz
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: ebook, book
Publisher: F+W Media
Published: 2011-07-07T16:00:00+00:00

Mr. Fix-Its

We're not the only fix-its in a relationship. Some of you may take on our problems. Are you subconsciously attracted to a helpless woman who offers you a chance to be a man? Finding one to renovate is no better than our trying to fix you. If you don't want to be our Prince Charming, don't look for Eliza Doolittle.

DAMAGED WOMEN

You bring past problems into a relationship. We do too. Women with problems can stimulate some of you to get out your toolbox and patch their damage. Many of you said you fall for women who seem helpless. Vulnerability motivates you to don your knight in shining armor suit, protect them, and fix their lives. STOP! Paul was ashamed when he told a class:

I met Shea in a bar. She was sweet and helpless, saying men had treated her badly in the past. She was struggling to make something of her life. I admired her determination and we began dating. I admit I liked feeling needed. But she became a pest, interrupting me at work. I asked her to stop but she'd cry—and I'd weaken. She did nothing to help herself. She had excuses instead of a job. I loaned her money but she'd want more. I eventually understood why men haven't treated her right. I wanted to shake her—tell her to leave me alone—get her life together. I've been attracted to women like this before. Growing up I was the youngest and always felt useless. I like helping. But I'm trying to stop dating needy women—I'm never happy after the first few weeks of taking care of them.

You say you like helping us and often end up angry if you don't get the eternal gratitude you crave. Neither sex should choose a partner they have to fix. Your need to “be the man” for a woman with serious problems won't work. It makes you feel important, for a while. Do volunteer work for charity if you need a project. You might meet a nice woman there.

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